the faith in words and
deeds. Witness is an act of justice that establishes the truth or makes it
known.
All Christians by the example of their lives and the witness of their
word, wherever they live, have an obligation to manifest the new man which they
have put on in Baptism and to reveal the power of the Holy Spirit by whom they
were strengthened at Confirmation.
(Catechism 2472)
II. Put away falsehood –
Scripture bids us, Therefore,
putting away falsehood, let every one speak the truth with his neighbor, for we
are members one of another. (Eph 4:22-25)
So the Eighth Commandment upholds
the goodness and beauty of the truth, exhorts us to celebrate it and instructs
that we must avoid all sins against the truth. There are numerous ways that the
we can sin against the truth. It will be fruitful for us to consider them each
in turn, along with some distinctions.
III. False Witness
- Nothing can be so injurious to
individuals as to harm their good name or reputation. Without a good reputation
it becomes difficult for an individual to successfully relate to and interact
with others whether it be for business or merely at a personal level.
Clearly,
to bear false witness against someone is to harm their reputation and we are
forbidden to do so.
In the technical sense, false
witness is something which takes place in a court of law and since it is under
oath it is also called perjury.
But it is also often the case that
false witness is given in daily matters through lies, half truths,
exaggeration, and the like.
Clearly our call to love the truth and to respect
the reputation of others forbids us engaging in such activities.
Respect for the reputation of
others also forbids us from:
A. Rash judgement – assuming
without sufficient foundation the moral fault of a neighbor
B. Detraction – disclosing an
other’s faults and failings without a valid reason to others who did not know
them
C. Calumny – imputing false defects
to another with the knowledge that they are false.
Yet it is also possible to offend
the truth by
D. Inappropriately praising others
E. By refusing to correct them when
it is proper to do so.
F. Flattery distorts the truth when
it falsely attributes certain good qualities or talents to another. This is
usually done to ingratiate oneself to individuals or for some other ulterior
motive(s).
Such behavior becomes particularly
sinful when it confirms another in malicious acts or sinful conduct.
IV. Lying
- A lie consists in speaking a
falsehood with the intention of deceiving…Lying is the most direct offense
against the truth.
To lie is to speak or act against the truth in order to lead
into error someone who has the right to know the truth.
By injuring man’s relation to truth
and to his neighbor, a lie offends against the fundamental relation of man and
of his word to the Lord…The Lord denounces lying as the work of the devil: “You
are of your father the devil, . . . there is no truth in him….he is a liar and
the father of lies.” [Jn 8:44]….
By its very nature, lying is to be
condemned. It is a profanation of speech, whereas the purpose of speech is to
communicate known truth to others. The deliberate intention of leading a
neighbor into error by saying things contrary to the truth constitutes a
failure in justice and charity…
A lie does real violence to
another.
It affects his ability to know, which is a condition of every judgment
and decision…Lying is destructive of society; it undermines trust…and tears
apart the fabric of social relationships
. (Catechism 2482-2485)
Acts of lying are sins from which
we must repent. Lying is also a sin that demands reparation. That is to say,
since lying causes actual harm and real damage. These damages must be repaired.
The actual truth must be made known to those who deserve to know it. The
reputations of others which have been harmed by the lie must also be restored.
V. Is lying always so evil?
The gravity of a lie is measured
against the nature of the truth it deforms, the circumstances, the intentions
of the one who lies, and the harm suffered by its victims. (Catechism 2484). Thus there are big lies and smaller ones.
Nevertheless, it is always wrong to intentionally lie.
This includes so called “polite
lies.”
For example suppose a phone call comes in for someone in the household
who has indicated a preference not to be disturbed just now.
It is a lie to
say, “She is not here.” Yet you could say, “She is not available now.”
Other
social situations are less simple! For example, if Mrs. Smith asks you, “Do you
like my new hairstyle?” Suppose you do not. It is in fact wrong to say, “Yes, I
like it.” Granted, we all feel a bit stuck in such situations! Perhaps we could
answer truthfully but discreetly and say, “You look alright.” (Presuming that
we do think so).
But wouldn’t it be nice if we
actually felt secure enough either to indicate, charitably, our true feelings
or to indicate our preference not to answer the question? Wouldn’t it be even
nicer if our relationships with others were so based in sincerity and truth,
that people both gave and expected honest answers? It is to this blessed state
that the Lord points when he says,
Let what you say be simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ (Mt
5:37).
VI. What about secrets?
– This reflection has thus far
emphasized the goodness and the splendor of the truth as well as the importance
of communicating that truth to others who need it. However, as the Catechism
states:
The right to the communication of
the truth is not unconditional..Fraternal love…requires us in concrete
situations to judge whether or not it is appropriate to reveal the truth to
someone who asks for it.
The good and safety of others, respect for privacy,
and the common good are sufficient reasons for being silent about what ought
not be known or for making use of a discreet language.
The duty to avoid scandal often
commands strict discretion. No one is bound to reveal the truth to someone who
does not have the right to know it…Everyone should observe an appropriate
reserve concerning persons’ private lives.
Those in charge of communications
should maintain a fair balance between the requirements of the common good and
respect for individual rights.
Interference by the media in the
private lives of persons engaged in political or public activity is to be
condemned to the extent that it infringes upon their privacy and freedom.
(Catechism 2488, 2489, 2492)
However, the fact that we are
permitted, even obliged, to keep certain secrets and maintain discretion, does
not mean that we are free simply to lie. For example we cannot say, “I don’t
know anything about that” if we do. Neither can we make up false answers to
requested information. When we must decline to give information that is
properly to be kept secret, we must still remain truthful. We might say
instead, “I am not free to discuss this matter with you now.” Or, “It would be
inappropriate for me to comment on that.” Or, “Why don’t you ask him yourself?”
Occasionally we may need to be more direct and say, “This is a private matter
and not for you to know.”
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